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Neat, but in practice it doesn't work. In my ~20 years experience, I've found that while things like salary and vacation are negotiable, the terms in tech employment contracts are not negotiable. I've tried that cute "strike out the stuff in your employment agreement that you don't agree to" move, and in ALL cases, received a stern note from the corporate legal department a few days later basically saying "Sign it un…
As a contractor, I've seen these before - and more frequently, the indemnification clause. I've always just sent a apologetic but firm email saying that I cannot accept those clauses and they always get removed without any drama or handwringing. Admittedly I'm on the upper end of the experience scale, but I think there's a lot more wiggle room than most people realize. Also, this is a pretty decent litmus test for an…
Hold on, everyone! My parent(^) said something simple, yet it is powerful. I don't believe s/he realized they were providing such insightful information, but the little gem that makes a huge difference is in that short quote.
While many companies may not be flexible with their contracts, I love your approach. Surely the odds of success must improve - if only slightly - by simply pointing out undesirable clauses and requesting that they modify and reissue the contract to accommodate, rather than striking it out in red ink yourself and shoving it back in their faces as an ultimatum.
The former tactic de-escalates the issue to being a reasonable request from a respectful person, while the latter comes across as coming from an immovably stubborn personality who may bring a habit of causing drama into the company. Better to politely identify how the employer can effect a positive difference on your end, rather than railing against the company's policies with your demands before you've even been hired. "My way or the highway" doesn't sound very amiable.
How often do companies reject red-inked contracts, not because they are unwilling to amend the contract, but because their intuition has triggered them into avoiding your coarse methods of getting what you want? Seriously, this is quite eye-opening. You've made me rethink my negotiation phase. I will be unapologetically thieving this diplomatic approach for my personal use in the future. Thank you!