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> Doesn't the Respect for Marriage Act [1] ensure they can't roll back same-sex marriage like they did abortion? No. RMA lets states ban gay marriage. It just requires them to honour other states' gay marriages.
Thanks for the clarification. I still wonder if it matters all that much. You only need one state to allow non-residents to marry on Zoom, and it's a non-issue in practical terms. States banning same-sex marriage within their borders takes away the dignity and respect of same-sex marriages and couples, so it's quite awful. But they can't actively prosecute people for crossing state lines to marry. They have to provid…
It's a daily reminder that you're a second class citizen, that your family isn't really a family worth respecting. It matters a great deal.
Imagine a state prohibiting mixed race marriage, and saying "oh it doesn't really matter" because unlawful mixed race couplings can always drive over the state lines somewhere.
It's spit on your face on one of the most important days of your life.