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> The most concerning limitation in the German market is the unavailability of native Glass Fiber modems, that can accept as input a Glass Fiber connection: at the moment, providers install their own Glass Fiber modem. Im actually quite okay with that. Why should I have to pay for specialized hardware that won't be usable if I move and the new apartment uses DSL or docsis. Give me an rj45 (or sfp for some fiber conne…
You say "why should I have to pay", but they really haven't said or suggested anything about how they'd rather you paid for anything. They're talking about having an option to supply one's own device, not about requiring so. The common rationale behind this I'm aware of is that an ONT device is technically a computer with persistence, hosting arbitrary code and data that you cannot (or at least not supposed to) audit…
https://duckduckgo.com/?q=bidi+sfp looking like this:
https://www.fs.com/de/products/39196.html fitting to this interface specification from the ISP:
https://www.wilhelm-tel.de/schnittstellenbeschreibung which is AON also known as 1000BASEBX20-U.
Just have to watch out for the right wavelengths/colors for TX/RX(transmit/recieve/upstream/downstream)