I'll never forget having to be a moderator for a somewhat popular forum back in the day and oh man did I learn how a few people can make your life hell. One thing not mentioned many times in these discussions are the poor moderators. Having to look at all that stuff, some of which can be very disturbing or shocking (think death, gore, etc as well as the racy things) really takes a toll on the mind. The more automatio…
I'll never forget having to be a moderator for a somewhat popular forum back in the day and oh man did I learn how a few people can make your life hell. I was also a mod for a popular gaming forum way back in the day. It was pretty miserable looking back. Personally, for me, the extreme/shocking content wasn't the biggest issue. That stuff was quick and easy to deal with. If you saw that type of content you just imme…
In about a year as a mod on a semi-busy political forum, the trickiest situations always seemed to involve two users, neither generally horrible but both continually stepping over the line in their interactions with each other. And each had their own highly motivated allies, so any action would ignite a new firestorm of complaints about biased moderators. What a nightmare. Probably part of why that site doesn't exist any more.
BTW, that's also where I learned some rules of effective moderation. Unfortunately, finding a forum where moderators know how to moderate is hard. Far more often, they fall into a pattern of ruling on technicalities instead of considering what will actually improve discourse, and they always end up getting manipulated by the community's worst members to drive out better ones.