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I don’t think they ever tried to “abolish family”. Where are you getting this stuff? It sounds like bad history lessons. They did stuff like legalizing divorce, or collectivization of parenting.
> 1918 Code on Marriage, the Family and Guardianship > One year after the Bolsheviks took power, they ratified the 1918 Code on Marriage, the Family and Guardianship. The revolutionary jurists, led by Alexander Goikhbarg, adhered to the revolutionary principals of Marx, Engels, and Lenin when drafting the codes. Goikhbarg considered the nuclear family unit to be a necessary but transitive social arrangement that woul…
Additionally, in the totalitarian phase which started in the late 1920s, family was supported and strengthened:
> the government of the Soviet Union first attempted to weaken the family and then to strengthen it from the 1930s onwards
It’s clear as day isn’t it? Totalitarian regimes can very much be based on family values.