A few places allow you to opt for a spoon instead, or drink right from the bowl without utensils. Note that it's not the customers who use the forks for stabbing; it's the restaurants themselves. To show their goodwill to a customer who does not trust them with a fork, they can offer a spoon.
The further we take this analogy, the more strained it becomes.
Yes, it's natural to use a cookie to track a session; this is a mechanism invented for that purpose. It's much less natural to share this tracking information with third parties, especially along with a record of your purchases or other interesting actions.
But ad revenue is much harder to obtain without targeting and thus tracking. And a lot of places depend mostly on ad revenue.
This is another case of "buy now, pay later" pattern, stretched to "take for free now, pay in loss of your privacy later". In a funny enough way, many people don't value the information they get on many ad-supported sites as highly as the marketers paying to grab their attention, so simply compensating by adding a subscription or one-time payment to go ad-free sometimes does not even work; the more generic / "doom-scrollalbe" the content is, the worse it works.