Earlier quoted context omitted.
I never intended my initial post as a dismissal of hard work. I actually assumed that people would understand it to be an expansion of a common saying "It's not what you know, it's who you know" - although I didn't feel the quotes were necessary. I'm not saying that there's no value in meeting people online - I think that's quite different than having a million karma points on a forum however. I also don't know how y…
I do not really want to fight with you and I think you are reading in a bunch of stuff that is not there. But I do want to say framing matters and the quotation marks you left out would have helped, though probably not enough. Take care.
I wish you all the best with your situation.