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Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

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Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

#31

Well, lucky people could just be more naturally observant. It seems that would be a useful trait.

Perhaps also more trusting/optimistic. Ie, for the newspaper experiment, the message said there were 43 pictures but why should you trust it?

True, I would still count them after ssing the message

Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

#32
luck, by its meaning of definition, cannot be determined or manupilated.You can either define the situation as your luck or your willingness, it just depends on how you see the context. Luck, fate and willingness.How all those are related to each other is best examined in the Kieslowski's movie Blind Chance.

I was just thinking about this issue today because the house that i wanted to rent was just rented to someone else. It was depressing & important for several reasons. I keep asking myself: "what if i called the broker earlier, just a day before? Could i have the chance to rent the house?" Well, i might be act earlier but i didn't know about the house earlier, the reason that i didn't know, well i had to do something that day..and this goes and goes and goes...Its like the Feyman video that i watched from here, some very simple things can branches into very complicated and sophisticated manners. This also partly mentioned in the funeral monologue from Synecdoche, NY http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9PzSNy3xj0

Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

#33
Anybody else annoyed by what a blatant advertisement this is for a self-help program?

"My research revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four basic principles. ... After graduating from "luck school", she has passed her driving test after three years of trying, was no longer accident-prone and became more confident. ... The Luck Factor (Century), is available for £9.99 + £1.99 p&p. To order, please call Telegraph Books Direct on 0870 155 7222."

To me the news here is, "Publishing company uses newspaper it owns to promote one of its books."

Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

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post #30

I am someone who seems to often have phenomenal "good luck". My subjective experience is that it also relates to how you treat other people. Just being consistently polite and having good boundaries opens up opportunities in a big way -- often to a degree that astonishes me.

I do all of this, and my personal life has had lots of good luck in the last five years, but at the utter expense of my professional luck. I have had an astounding series of bad luck, especially recently. I do all the things you mention, the article mentions, etc. And still, it seems as if my luck as gone from bad to worse. It's shocking to me. Certainly a large part of this is my fault; I had too much hubris and self-confidence, and was sure if things had been going a certain way, they would continue that way even to some extent. But bad luck happens, just as good luck happens, with no priming for the condition at all.

Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

#36

I read an article about this once. Here's the gist of it: if you want to be lucky, you should gamble, etc. only when the entropy levels are higher than usual.

What? No. Maybe you should read this article. Perhaps you can interchange "Luck" with "Fortune", but it contains a few principles that could benefit you in the future.

Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

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post #35

I wish I could know how the luckies and unluckies would have done on the "marshmallow test" as 4-year-olds. (Then I'd make the "luckies" be guards and the "unluckies" be prisoners...)

I think the unluckies would resist the marshmallows better. The hight degree of worry strikes me as mind over emotion. Then again the variables might be independent and there would be no correlation between EQ and luck.

Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

#38
They tend to take the same route to and from work and talk to the same types of people at parties. In contrast, many lucky people try to introduce variety into their lives. For example, one person described how he thought of a colour before arriving at a party and then introduced himself to people wearing that colour. This kind of behaviour boosts the likelihood of chance opportunities by introducing variety

This may be tangential to the discussion at hand, but for many, like myself, who tend to be shy and hesitant to reach out to others, this seems like one good way to overcome that. If you make it into a game, it can become less stressful. Anyone else have any other ideas like this?

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Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

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post #38

They tend to take the same route to and from work and talk to the same types of people at parties. In contrast, many lucky people try to introduce variety into their lives. For example, one person described how he thought of a colour before arriving at a party and then introduced himself to people wearing that colour. This kind of behaviour boosts the likelihood of chance opportunities by introducing variety This may…

Do what I did to make it happen---just do it. Do it everyday. Talk to random strangers. Go live in a hostel in a foreign country (by far the easiest way ever to meet people). Make it natural

Re: Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

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post #38

They tend to take the same route to and from work and talk to the same types of people at parties. In contrast, many lucky people try to introduce variety into their lives. For example, one person described how he thought of a colour before arriving at a party and then introduced himself to people wearing that colour. This kind of behaviour boosts the likelihood of chance opportunities by introducing variety This may…

Organize a Rubik's party - great fun - everyone comes with clothes of different colors. The goal is to exchange clothes with someone else so that at the end of the evening, all your clothes have the same color. First to do it "wins".

Great way to meet people - you have to talk to them to do it. Great way to meet girls too. More of a young/student thing though - replaces beer pong around here. Would not work with an older crowd I guess, but hey, as long as you do it with the outer clothing, everyone could play.

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