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The ends don't justify the means: having a sexist practice to combat sexism is using the wrong means.
I understand where you're coming from, but I just don't think PyLadies and Women Who Code are sexist. It's certainly not the same as the institutional sexism in the tech industry.
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#32With a long history of having 30+ speakers at our events, the idea was proposed that we enforce a 1:1 ratio of men and women for our speakers. Yes, finding 15 qualified women is basically impossible, so why even try? /s
you missed the point. the problem is more like this: 1. Find the 30 best speakers that are available and can speak to a relevant/interesting topic to your event. 2. How many of them are men? How many are women? 3. If there are less than 15 women then it means that whatever metric you used to pick "best" didn't select a 1:1 ratio. Now you have to decide which do you consider more important, your "best" metric or 1:1 g…
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#33I'm very glad that groups like PyLadies and Women Who Code exist. Unfortunately I'm pretty terrified of meeting men that are significantly more experienced than myself in the industry when it comes to software. I'm terrified of coming off as clueless or air headed. On top of that, the men I have met in the industry are extremely intimidating. I've already had multiple experiences at University where a male peer has looked down at me due to my gender.
This is probably just a simple self confidence issue since I'm young however my point is groups that are women centric are a lot easier to relate to for someone like myself. I love the prospects of meeting other women that can give emotional and professional advice while sharing their work experiences with me. It's much easier to relate to and I'm sure networking with other women makes it easier to transition into the industry from school. Just my two cents.
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#35Quotas don't necessarily fix things _now_ -- they create a new normal for the next generation.
Quotas are numbers that are set and measured. They are not a means for changing hearts and minds, or actually making motion towards a goal.
The quota doesn't even need to reflect the goal, it's just a number, and in the case of this gender equality we're not even scrutinizing if it is meaningful. This is the same metric frat bros use to make sure they don't have sausage parties, why is it good here too? Does a 1:1 ration equate to unblocked opportunity? If so, what does the high ratio of male contributors to wikipedia mean?
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#38And you completely missed the point of the concept of privilege.
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#40Just an idea. If you want to write a serious article on the subject of women in tech, no matter what your views are, you're probably better off not putting a "no girls allowed" graphic on top, no matter how "funny" or "ironic" you may think it is.
So, it's alright to actually run "no boys allowed" schools, dinners and programs in tech, but it's not OK to ironically put a "no girls allowed" image in a blog post? Do you realize that this double standard is harmful for everyone?