That's how I feel about revenge porn/leaked nude photos and videos of non-underage people in general. There should be legal consequences for people who leak this content against the wish of the people depicted, but I feel the media often plays up the narrative that people shouldn't take nude pictures (a pragmatic approach, but not the best going forward) and never mentions the silliness of reacting harshly to other people's sexuality.
However, the pragmatic approach is still needed in a world where many people can attack you for your idiosyncrasies. Depending on your current situation, you won't lose your job and your particular interest will become only a minor office joke, but when you run for Congress, the masses may still care too much about it.
As someone mentioned on HN, the advantage of being transparent is that you can weaponize it — "I do (thing) and if that worries you, it's your problem, not mine".
And start downloading kinds of porn you have no interest in, just to confuse the snoops ;)