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Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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This was exactly the same problem when AirTime tried to use the Chat Roulette concept to create an app "to meet new people on your social graph".

Using FB connect killed all the fun in that. You can tell by the disclaimer they're now using on their landing page.

Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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Those crazy kids with their crazy ideas about how to love each other. Good for them. I can imagine Version 2.0 being even more general (a craigslist of discreet hypothetical matching) for more than just sexual arrangements. But continuing the sexual theme, obviously the next logical step is N-way group hookups. It occurs to me that something similar could also be implemented in a distributed manner (for use offline o…

Only on HN would sex involve asymmetric encryption and split keys. I kid, but I'd wait to see if this 'crazy idea' is successful (top tip: it won't be) before planning the second iteration.

> (top tip: it won't be)

You seriously think so? Casual sex has been a major use of Facebook for quite a long time. This particular approach may not catch on, but I guarantee you that some variation of this idea eventually will work.

Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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Ask HN: What is BangWithFriends? Edit: a Facebook app that where you can click on friends you want to sleep with. If they have the app, they are notified. I would think this would be more cool if both of you are only notified if you both signify that you want to sleep with each other. This could also be toned down to just signify romantic interest to get more engagement.

It does work only work based on mutual notifications.

I know it's bad form to link to your own website, but I wrote at length about this here: http://www.zacharyalberico.net/blog/dating-websites/

Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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Ask HN: What is BangWithFriends? Edit: a Facebook app that where you can click on friends you want to sleep with. If they have the app, they are notified. I would think this would be more cool if both of you are only notified if you both signify that you want to sleep with each other. This could also be toned down to just signify romantic interest to get more engagement.

It does work only work based on mutual notifications. I know it's bad form to link to your own website, but I wrote at length about this here: http://www.zacharyalberico.net/blog/dating-websites/

I know it's bad form to link to your own website

You must be new here...

Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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post #35

Earlier quoted context omitted.

It does work only work based on mutual notifications. I know it's bad form to link to your own website, but I wrote at length about this here: http://www.zacharyalberico.net/blog/dating-websites/

I know it's bad form to link to your own website You must be new here...

Thank goodness for new people. Without them, old gets old.

Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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By changing the app privacy to "Only me" it doesn't appear in Open Graph searches

Now the app developers have to see if they can have that as the default privacy setting for anyone who uses the app and this should be truly private info after that.

You can set that default. See screenshot from https://developers.facebook.com/apps/[APP_ID]/permissions: http://bluetide.pro/k6sP/2HAHipbX - Just change "Default Activity Privacy" to "Only me".

More info: https://developers.facebook.com/docs/guides/appcenter/#autho...

Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

#38

Ask HN: What is BangWithFriends? Edit: a Facebook app that where you can click on friends you want to sleep with. If they have the app, they are notified. I would think this would be more cool if both of you are only notified if you both signify that you want to sleep with each other. This could also be toned down to just signify romantic interest to get more engagement.

The fatal flaw in the model is "I'm going to click on all my friends to see who signals interest in me".

Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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Only on HN would sex involve asymmetric encryption and split keys. I kid, but I'd wait to see if this 'crazy idea' is successful (top tip: it won't be) before planning the second iteration.

> (top tip: it won't be) You seriously think so? Casual sex has been a major use of Facebook for quite a long time. This particular approach may not catch on, but I guarantee you that some variation of this idea eventually will work.

I don't think casual sex has been a major use of Facebook for a while- certainly during it's college-only days that could have been the case, but less so in a more social network aware world.

I think something like BangWithFriends is doomed to fail simply because of the visibility. People can see if you use the app, which would embarrass many. And like almost every single online dating/sexual site out there, the number of men dramatically outnumbers the number of women.

Re: Tell HN: The problem with BangWithFriends - it's not anonymous

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It's a new service that has a mission to connect people, increase natural population growth and make the world more open place.

> increase natural population growth A booty call app seems like a terrible place to promote parenting.

Why not? Starting from just $85/mo, http://kidswithout.us/ will raise them until they're 18.
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