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No, I tried Clickhouse instead, which worked without crashing or manual memory tuning. Search the issues of the duckdb GitHub there’s at least 110 open and closed oom (out of memory) and maybe 400 to 500 that reference “memory”.
Understood: SQLite is to Postgres as DuckDB is to ClickHouse.
SQLite isn’t small and crashy, it’s small and reliable.
There’s something fundamentally wrong with the codebase/architecture if there’s so many memory problems.
And the absolute baseline requirement for a production database is no crashes.