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Take something you don’t like and try to like it

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Re: Take something you don’t like and try to like it

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How are you an old curmudgeon at 30

Hasn't had kids to push the Reset button, probably.

I am fully against forcing kids into this world with the way things are currently going. If I see a future I'd want to live in I'll think about kids.

Re: Take something you don’t like and try to like it

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Something my middle-class British upbringing nurtured in me was incredible pessimism. Day to day this used to manifest as an assumption that I wouldn’t like any new experience, so I’d avoid them and stick to what I knew. My (American) wife pointed this out to me and life got much better when I learned to just give new things an enthusiastic and unprejudiced try more often.

Re: Take something you don’t like and try to like it

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Many things need to be understood to be appreciated. For instance music: we tend to like what we know, and what we know is what we hear on the radio/everywhere we go. When people tell me they don't like jazz, I always find a jazz song they like. If they say they don't like rap music, I can always find one they like. Why? Maybe because it's closer to what they already understand (making it more accessible), or maybe i…

I like churches, I just don’t like going to church :)

Re: Take something you don’t like and try to like it

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Or don't, and cultivate taste, which is about having a rationale for separating the good from the bad -- and disliking stuff. It might not make you popular at parties though.

No, fuck taste. It's either a class shibboleth or just a game of Calvinball where snobs trying to one up each other.

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Re: Take something you don’t like and try to like it

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Many things need to be understood to be appreciated. For instance music: we tend to like what we know, and what we know is what we hear on the radio/everywhere we go. When people tell me they don't like jazz, I always find a jazz song they like. If they say they don't like rap music, I can always find one they like. Why? Maybe because it's closer to what they already understand (making it more accessible), or maybe i…

I like churches, I just don’t like going to church :)

Feel the same about hospitals

Re: Take something you don’t like and try to like it

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Do you have any tips for how to work on this with kids?

Would like to know as well. Whenever I suggest something new it's a default "NO!". But if it just happens naturally it's ok. Like if I put on a song and suggest he listen to it, my kid will literally scream and cry like I'm torturing him, but if it happens to be on the radio while driving then suddenly it's fine and he'll love it. I think part of the reason is that everything is on demand these days, unlike when we g…

Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Re: Take something you don’t like and try to like it

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I‘m wondering why nobody has brought up the term "acquired taste" yet. Such a beautiful expression, sadly I can’t find a good translation in most other languages.

I managed to acquire a taste for gin and tonic - I went as an adult from thinking it was the most revolting thing ever to one of the few drinks I occasionally find myself craving. Acquiring the taste clearly involved drinking the stuff but I have no idea how...
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