Well, first of all: I'm not trying to bash BTRFS at all, it probably is just not meant for me. However, I'm trying to gain information it is really considered stable (like rock solid) or it might have been a hardware Problem on my system. I used cryptsetup with BTRFS because I encrypt all of my stuff. One day, the system froze and after reboot the partition was unrecoverably gone (the whole story[1]). Not a real prob…
That said, I avoid it like the plague on servers, to get acceptable performance (or avoid fragmentation) with VMs or databases you need to disable COW which disables many of it's features, so it's better just to roll with XFS (and get pseudo-snapshots anyway).