The discussion in Sussman and Wisdom's "Structure and Interpretation of Classical Mechanics", about how the Euler-Lagrange equations don't literally make sense as traditionally written, has long resonated with me: https://mitp-content-server.mit.edu/books/content/sectbyfn/b... They also adopt a notation where partial derivatives are taken with respect to "argument slots".
This specific notation makes no sense in a Physics context. The names of the variables encode information that is lost if you use purely positional arguments. If I take a state function F(V, T) and its partial derivative wrt T, things like notation ∂_2 F get much murkier and context dependent than ∂_T F or ∂F/∂T, which benefit from a general consistency of notations. Ultimately, the function F has a physical meaning…
But I do agree with your main point that the order of arguments is irrelevant, and it is a mistake to make it a first-class citizen of the notation.