"The Black-Scholes equation" The Black-Scholes equation assumes a random walk/Gaussian distribution. This assumption is basically flawed, since it is a Levi flight.
and yet, in practice, it doesn't matter that much (most of the time) models just have to useful, they don't have to be correct
It does not matter? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Long-Term_Capital_Management
Options far out of the market are underpriced. Mandelbrot, investing on the stockmarket is riskier than you think. But then, the opposite must also be true. It can be more lucrative than expected. I currently hold some far out of the money options. Unfortunately, the underlying stock goes against me :-(