This is a pet issue of mine, having lived in two off grid homes going back to the 80's. The barriers are not materials, technology, or labor, but purely regulatory. I could take my current home off permanently grid with solar today for less than 10k but to do so would be illegal. Permitted grid connected solar costs 5x that and disconnecting from the grid is not permitted.
To be fair - technology is lacking for people living in the city to be able to go off grid in a meaningful way. Disconnecting from the grid - that sounds like there's some kind of clause in the area that you live that essentially ties you to the utility. You must live in on the pacific coast or SW. EDIT: To all the responses - I'm talking off grid as in all functionality. Sure you can add solar / solar thermal etc th…
Everyone has a use for hot water. You can always have off-grid solar heating an auxiliary tank to take the load off the primary water heater.