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Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by joshcanhelp »

nextos wrote: post #15
charles_f wrote: post #8

I'm in the middle of the book, it's very inspirational. This websites great, thanks!

Does the book have any good insights? From reviews, I kind of perceived it's only about limiting work in progress and adopting a more slow and human approach to things. I feel these insights were already brought by many industrial production methodologies, e.g. Toyota, in a more rational and less newage-y package. Am I missing something?

I consider it one of the most important non-fiction books I’ve ever read. His thoughts on commitment, efficiency, planning, and distraction changed my perspective on work and life in general in many important ways. I listened to the whole book twice and have it on my nightstand to read again.

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Post by TurkishPoptart »

>You have lived one thousand seven hundred seventy-four of them so far That’s a significant amount of the weeks you’ll see. The psychologist Erik Erikson suggests that at this phase of life you focus on the virtue of love. Share yourself more intimately with others and invest in happy relationships so that your future weeks can be lived well with companionship and purpose.

Jesus, I'm going to cry. FML.

Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by charles_f »

nextos wrote: post #15
charles_f wrote: post #8

I'm in the middle of the book, it's very inspirational. This websites great, thanks!

Does the book have any good insights? From reviews, I kind of perceived it's only about limiting work in progress and adopting a more slow and human approach to things. I feel these insights were already brought by many industrial production methodologies, e.g. Toyota, in a more rational and less newage-y package. Am I missing something?

This goes much beyond techniques and tools, this is very philosophical, about slowing down, adjusting your expectations, realizing that you live on borrowed time, that future-orientation makes us miserable, that a lot of our issues comes from the finitude of our lives, that we need to embrace it, etc.

Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by bentcorner »

localghost3000 wrote: post #18
FearlessNebula wrote: post #4

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Tbh I don’t think you understood the goal of this post. The idea, to me, is to remind the reader of how precious life is, and to be mindful of how you’re spending it. Whether you think about it or try to ignore it, time is ticking by at the same speed. I’m only 25 but I’ve wasted way too much time on Reddit, YouTube, and even HN, in my opinion. > As with all things, moderation. Sure, but in my anecdotal experience th…

I’m 45. Wife. Kid. The works. Painfully aware of how precious life is. 20 years ago when I was your age (which btw feels like only a few years ago…) this type of content resonated a lot more with me. I assume it was because the concept of aging was still pretty abstract. Now I’m in the shit so to speak. My point is that I’ve seen a million of these. Hell I’ve read 4K weeks! You’ll get no argument from me that spendin…

I'm in the exact same phase of life as you. Same age, mortgage, kids, wife, etc.

Recently I've been feeling distracted at work and unable to commit anything to completion, especially since I've been WFH since you-know-when. It's been a blessing to not have a commute but at the same time demands more of my concentration. At the same time, I have a hard time saying no at work. Throughout the day I tend to flit between tasks, along with starting/stopping work altogether as my mind wanders.

I like the message this article brings. One thing I definitely don't do is think about things I've completed.

I've talked to a counselor about this. They've gotten me to think about being more graceful to myself about my concentration and my work. I don't know if I'm there yet but we'll see.

Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by antman »

localghost3000 wrote: post #3

I’m impressed by the beauty of this site and sophistication of the UI. However I _hate_ this type of messaging that does nothing for you except make your mental health worse. I don’t want to think about how many weeks of life I have left! Inducing existential dread is NOT what any of us need to start living our lives more fully (which I assume is the intent of this site). You wanna zone out on YouTube? Go for it. Tha…

Regarding the sophisticated ui, how do you change the year?

Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by [deleted] »

localghost3000 wrote: post #18
FearlessNebula wrote: post #4

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Tbh I don’t think you understood the goal of this post. The idea, to me, is to remind the reader of how precious life is, and to be mindful of how you’re spending it. Whether you think about it or try to ignore it, time is ticking by at the same speed. I’m only 25 but I’ve wasted way too much time on Reddit, YouTube, and even HN, in my opinion. > As with all things, moderation. Sure, but in my anecdotal experience th…

I’m 45. Wife. Kid. The works. Painfully aware of how precious life is. 20 years ago when I was your age (which btw feels like only a few years ago…) this type of content resonated a lot more with me. I assume it was because the concept of aging was still pretty abstract. Now I’m in the shit so to speak. My point is that I’ve seen a million of these. Hell I’ve read 4K weeks! You’ll get no argument from me that spendin…

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Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by harshaw »

Not the kind to usually complain about UI but on my android browser there doesn't appear to be a way to bypass the date picker meaning that I have to scroll back in time a month at a time. 576 times to be precise.

Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by highwayman47 »

TurkishPoptart wrote: post #32

>You have lived one thousand seven hundred seventy-four of them so far That’s a significant amount of the weeks you’ll see. The psychologist Erik Erikson suggests that at this phase of life you focus on the virtue of love. Share yourself more intimately with others and invest in happy relationships so that your future weeks can be lived well with companionship and purpose. Jesus, I'm going to cry. FML.

Same bro

Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by agumonkey »

FearlessNebula wrote: post #4
localghost3000 wrote: post #3

I’m impressed by the beauty of this site and sophistication of the UI. However I _hate_ this type of messaging that does nothing for you except make your mental health worse. I don’t want to think about how many weeks of life I have left! Inducing existential dread is NOT what any of us need to start living our lives more fully (which I assume is the intent of this site). You wanna zone out on YouTube? Go for it. Tha…

Tbh I don’t think you understood the goal of this post. The idea, to me, is to remind the reader of how precious life is, and to be mindful of how you’re spending it. Whether you think about it or try to ignore it, time is ticking by at the same speed. I’m only 25 but I’ve wasted way too much time on Reddit, YouTube, and even HN, in my opinion. > As with all things, moderation. Sure, but in my anecdotal experience th…

Ironically, free broadband internet is one of the saddest time accelerator I've ever experienced. Way worse than work.

Re: Four thousand weeks

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Post by eyelidlessness »

localghost3000 wrote: post #3

I’m impressed by the beauty of this site and sophistication of the UI. However I _hate_ this type of messaging that does nothing for you except make your mental health worse. I don’t want to think about how many weeks of life I have left! Inducing existential dread is NOT what any of us need to start living our lives more fully (which I assume is the intent of this site). You wanna zone out on YouTube? Go for it. Tha…

Not reacting to your comment, nor to any particular of the replies, but the general direction of the conversation below: I get the impression this is a lightning rod for misunderstanding, and lots of loaded assumptions around what participants in the conversation value and about the values they find disagreeable.

But a common thread I’ve seen is that being adaptable to what you need and helps you thrive is better than setting arbitrary impossible expectations. That seems totally healthy to me regardless of some finer points I might dispute in individual comments. I hope there’s a chance this discussion will reach a point with less talking past each other, because there’s an awful lot that seems to be held in common.

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