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Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

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Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

#31
For concrete, useful strategies on dealing with procrastination, there's no better resource I can recommend than the following video by Dr Tim Pychyl: [1]

It ostensibly focuses on procrastination among grad students, but the analysis and strategies discussed there are applicable to all sorts of procrastination.

I've watched a lot of videos and read a lot of books on procrastination, and this is by far the best.

[1] - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhFQA998WiA

Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

#33
I also struggle with similar issues. There's plenty of techniques and thoughts to be had. One of the is to manage your expectations: do they correspond to reality? Are you expecting something that just isn't possible? This can cause unecessary friction and worsen the situation. It's good to practice self-acceptance and forgiveness, and find your own way of dealing with things.

The other, is to develop some habits. Maybe commit to doing a certain task progress for at least a certain time, say 1 hour (or even just 15min) every day. Embrace imperfection! (or, more poetically, "Embrace Jank" :) )https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26481837

Give space for your ideas to evolve. Projects evolve with work. You don't even need to publish them! Simply move them forward. Take a holistic view on how you are improving the world, and improving your own life.

Make sure you have "baseline" issues in control, but keep in mind no one really has them in perfect check: https://lorienpsych.com/2021/06/05/depression/ (This page has great mostly evidence-based advice on lifestyle interventions)

Here's my take on ethics: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26481837

Good luck, and Hack the planet! :)

Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

#34
If you cannot get professional help: work to get in touch with your emotions. What are you afraid of? What exactly makes you anxious? Are these feelings matching reality? Also: everybody fails sometimes, everybody has problems, perfection does not exist. This sounds super cliche but was tremendous help for me. I considered myself super rational and suppressed my feelings for most of my life. That means living fantasy, not knowing yourself and without truth about yourself you cannot change

Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

#35
Keep "failing" as a goal until you succeed. Eg. Goal "get a glass of water" take the first step towards wherever the water is = fail = success take the second step = fail = success....keep going until you finally get your glass of water = success....this method works for me.

Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

#36
Read Johann Hari.

Stop seeing salesmen of the drug cartel. Their job is to get you addicted to various drugs for life. That's what they are trained to do.

See a psychologist... or even an alternative therapist. Placebo works and it works specially great for psychosomatic conditions.

Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

#37

Read Johann Hari. Stop seeing salesmen of the drug cartel. Their job is to get you addicted to various drugs for life. That's what they are trained to do. See a psychologist... or even an alternative therapist. Placebo works and it works specially great for psychosomatic conditions.

This Johann Hari? o.0

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Johann_Hari

Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

#38

For concrete, useful strategies on dealing with procrastination, there's no better resource I can recommend than the following video by Dr Tim Pychyl: [1] It ostensibly focuses on procrastination among grad students, but the analysis and strategies discussed there are applicable to all sorts of procrastination. I've watched a lot of videos and read a lot of books on procrastination, and this is by far the best. [1] -…

His iProcrastinate podcast is very useful, as well as his book, “Solving the Procrastination Puzzle”.

Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

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First of all, this is not the place for health advice. None of us here are qualified in Psychiatry and Psychology. Please seek medical attention. I don't know which South Asian country you live in but you must seek help for your condition. Maybe therapy and medication would be necessary. Please take care of yourself and seek professional help. Take care.

This is at best unhelpful, at worst idiotic advice considering the context:

>> they just ask some questions give some meds and take the money without taking things seriously, sometimes does not even take ten minutes which was my experience. Even in the public hospital they pay less attention to me. There are good doctors who are caring but they are really rare

> None of us here are qualified in Psychiatry and Psychology.

Unless you have a list of all the posters, and their qualifications, you can not make that claim

> Please seek medical attention.

Which is what was already done as explained by the poster.

> Please take care of yourself and seek professional help

The only person who has a lot of skin in the game and perfectly aligned interest when it comes to your health is... yourself.

You can hope to find good and caring professionals, and it may even be a good heuristic to try that as a first line approach, but nobody has the personal and financial incentives to invest in your health as much as yourself - except possibly your spouse and parents.

Re: Ask HN: Have OCD, suffering from extreme procrastination, please help?

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post #6

Looks like bipolar. Quetiapine definitely helps for sleep - and you need a mood stablizer as well - like Divalproex. That will give you steady mood to do things property and stick with projects and such. Please ask your doctor to prescribe it for you.

Really? You’re going to diagnose someone over the Internet and tell them medicine to take? Dangerous.

they said to talk to their dr
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