Just recently I finally got sick of the various defects VLC developed on macOS: - Running videos off of my NAS routinely introduced audio lag even on very small videos (less than 1h long). My LAN and WAN are at 1GbE and my NAS uses ZFS with very adequate caching setup. - Crashes 2-3 times a week. Pretty rare but annoying nonetheless because I usually leave one huge video to play for the entire day. - On iOS and macOS…
2. Plex for a proprietary solution with good integration and remote access
3. tinyMediaManager for a minimal viable product solving your needs