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On the Loss of a Cofounder

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Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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It's not a technical document. It's a story. Intentionally writing ambiguity into your API documentation would be insane, but building on ambiguity to later resolve it is a powerful way to add meaning and emphasis to a story. If you want to read "descriptions of events", read the coroners report, not personal Medium posts.

Well, a story I am confused after 5 seconds... BTW, this is a personal take. Everyone is allowed to write in their own style. No judgement on that. The point is that one certainly can write in a way that is readable. The Lord of the ring is quite mystic, but it's written in a way that let readers follow along and enjoy. That'd be the style I appreciate and mimic.

The Lord Of The Rings did not open with "One does not simply walk into Modor". Blade Runner didn't open with "Yes, Rachel is a replicant".

You were confused after 5 seconds _because_ of the way he chose to write his story. It's proof that it was "readable" and well written because you reacted like that. Like you, I spent the first 2/3rds of the post wondering what "gone" meant. When I got to the bit where he came out and said "dead", the whole of the previous ambiguity and confusion resolved in a quite powerful way, almost as though I'd been internally hoping "gone" just meant "they drifted apart after stopping working so closely together". It hit me like a slap when the truth was revealed, which made the feeling of compassion for Ryan's loss and sorry even more bittersweet. I totally appreciated this style. _My_ "personal take" is that your personal take is based on a misunderstanding of the medium you're reading and the authors intentions. (Perhaps not a totally unexpected misunderstanding, given the site we're on and the more usual type of articles HN links to. But I doubt you have too much difficulty getting your head into "API documentation" or "political opinion" mode in the first few sentences if an article, I just don't quite understand why you (and a few other comments) didn't work out "Oh, a personal story piece" and either read it in that mindset or click back if they're not your thing.)

I'm guessing you've never read many murder mysteries? Or watched many crime or medical tv series? Or played Cluedo(/Clue)? Do you think each round of that game should open with "So Professor Plumb did it in the library with the candlestick. Right, you start." Should CSI open with "So we convicted him on DNA evidence found in the back seat of the Uber we linked to his credit card"?

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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I've been through this. It's heartbreaking. It completely redefines how you see success and meaning (or did for me). My condolences to Ryan and everyone else in Christian's life.

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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I remember reading this when it was published. It's so terrifying and sad. At least he had money to afford near constant care towards the end, but how many folks have illnesses like these and are hung out to dry due to poor finances?

This is such an alien concept as a non-American. Lack of money should not mean lack of medical care in any developed nation, let alone the “richest and greatest”

Yes, it's barbaric. At the moment, likely half of Americans have no health insurance.

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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post #11

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I remember reading this when it was published. It's so terrifying and sad. At least he had money to afford near constant care towards the end, but how many folks have illnesses like these and are hung out to dry due to poor finances?

This is such an alien concept as a non-American. Lack of money should not mean lack of medical care in any developed nation, let alone the “richest and greatest”

What kind of programs do non-US countries have to take care of people with mental illness? The actual medical care would be easier to get for sure, but the type of care described in the article ("She bought a 5,000-square-foot house on an acre of California's Central Coast, a spot they chose in the hope that his father, Rendon, could walk with him along the shore. She worked with a landscape architect to tailor the outdoor space to Lee's needs...") seems like it would be hard to get in any country.

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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post #31

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Well, a story I am confused after 5 seconds... BTW, this is a personal take. Everyone is allowed to write in their own style. No judgement on that. The point is that one certainly can write in a way that is readable. The Lord of the ring is quite mystic, but it's written in a way that let readers follow along and enjoy. That'd be the style I appreciate and mimic.

The Lord Of The Rings did not open with "One does not simply walk into Modor". Blade Runner didn't open with "Yes, Rachel is a replicant". You were confused after 5 seconds _because_ of the way he chose to write his story. It's proof that it was "readable" and well written because you reacted like that. Like you, I spent the first 2/3rds of the post wondering what "gone" meant. When I got to the bit where he came out…

I did not ask to start with "my friend died of car crash", while that certainly would make me more engaged with the article.

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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post #31

Earlier quoted context omitted.

The Lord Of The Rings did not open with "One does not simply walk into Modor". Blade Runner didn't open with "Yes, Rachel is a replicant". You were confused after 5 seconds _because_ of the way he chose to write his story. It's proof that it was "readable" and well written because you reacted like that. Like you, I spent the first 2/3rds of the post wondering what "gone" meant. When I got to the bit where he came out…

I did not ask to start with "my friend died of car crash", while that certainly would make me more engaged with the article.

I guess I misunderstood what you meant when you wrote these then:

"I still could not figure out what happened to the "gone" cofounder? Dead?" ... "They dont want to write at the beginning of what going on..."

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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post #22

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The title "On the Death of a Cofounder" was insufficient?

To be fair I believe the author has changed the title of the article since it was posted. It said "Loss" at first (as does the headline here).

Ah. Thanks. I didn't see it prior to the change and was puzzled by the comment.

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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I still could not figure out what happened to the "gone" cofounder? Dead? I cannot help to point out that today's online writing is so much wordy. They dont want to write at the beginning of what going on, or the authors could not realize how wordy their writing has become, possibly trained by the all-powerful need to market your company and organization.

Looks like a car accident: https://hudsonvalleypost.com/man-killed-in-hudson-valley-aft...

Effective self-driving cars can't come soon enough.

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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This is heartbreaking. I don’t know Ryan and I didn’t knew Christian, but I’ve been a fan of Audm and a subscriber since at least 2018.

My deepest thoughts to Christian’s family, friends, and coworkers as they face this loss.

Re: On the Loss of a Cofounder

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post #26

My wishes and prayers going to Christian's family. There's also a good book on the co-founder of Akamai who also departed early. I thought it was a good read: https://www.amazon.com/No-Better-Time-Remarkable-Transformed...

"departed early" really underestimates that one! (He was arguably the first to fall on 9/11)
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