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Generally it is the table design, and not the ORM that is the constraint on how you can write your queries. A good ORM lets you customize any part of the query, or even just write plain sql. Most performance problems that pop up as a product matures aren't because the ORM generates "slow" queries, it is because the table design didn't scale. That can't be fixed by writing plain sql.
This doesn’t really make sense to me. You don’t just design a good table schema independently and start querying it. The design isn’t a step that comes before the queries. The queries and the design are created in tandem. You design the schemas with the indices and queries in mind, write queries that use your indices. A good design doesn’t magically scale. It’s based on how you set up your indices and write SQL. A go…
But the alternative to an ORM is not opaque blobs if SQL hard coded into the app all over. How do you handle SQL injection attacks for example? What if you add/rename/drop a column? Do you just grep you code and edit every blob of sql in the app?