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"Now, be fair: Erlang papers over the deficiencies of the lower layers (namely, the kernel) with significant manual effort." Since the various Xpolls were added to the kernel, I would disagree. Even based on a select loop the kernel has still been happy to do many things asynchronously for a long time now, it's just a bit of a klunky API. What stopped it from being easy was that C had no good concurrency story except…
the OS doesn't mind threadlets/green threads/OS processes Except for the blocking system calls and blocking page faults that block all your green threads.
This is what I was referencing when I offhandedly mentioned the fact that some layers can make papering over them actually impossible; if the kernel can not be convinced to do it with any series of syscalls, or worse yet the hardware itself can not be convinced, you lose, game over. Another example, Haskell's very strong type system can do a fairly good job of making really damned sure you don't escape from the system, which is useful for making an STM that is actually usable precisely because the smallest escape hatch tends to bring it down. But the downside is that a library or something can actually make it impossible to hack around a problem (with any reasonable degree of effort).