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That's a relievingly admirable way to look at these creatures. I find the English "it" an exceptionally tiring feature. There are so many prejudices and world views embded in our languages. We call ourselves hackers, but where's a hackaday.io or hackathons for human language, the ubiquitous communication medium?
I already struggle to keep up with the politically correct term of the day. I don't want to offend anyone so I do do my best but our language is changing too fast to keep up.
Singular "they" has been around for decades or more.
"People of color" as a general shorthand for non-whites is also not exactly new (though fairly recent).
The only thing I can think of that evolved rapidly over the past years is "transgender" and "nonbinary", mostly because our shared cultural understanding of those attributes has significantly improved.
If you think of these as "political correctness", you can just as well go ahead and use the "politically incorrect" language and at least be honest about your lack of empathy or interest.