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Why I left Japan after 10 years

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Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#31
I can't agree with all of the author's opinions, though I have lived in Japan for only three years and I don't live in Tokyo. For me the experience has been positive until now. I have met some of the kindest people in the world and I feel welcome in my university and in the research institute I did an internship at.

Japanese society has some social quircks which are kind of unsettling for me as a foreigner, but those have not spoiled my stay here.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#33
I can understand, bicyclists are fucking annoying, and most of the time they are putting themselves and others in danger. For me, the road is no place for a bicyclist.

And, as you can see, there's no possible debate in the west: you have to have bicyclists, otherwise you're a backwards asshole. And I have to live with that, because that's society: you have to deal with people who don't think the way you do.

(You just have to look at the downvotes to see what I'm talking about ;P)

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#34
It's kind of ironic how much he generalises Japanese people.

See bad thing - link to Japanese people as a whole or in general, rather than the individual.

It's an easy mistake to make. Especially if you do ever hear it in the inverse direction. "Foreigners do X or Y", etc.

If he aimed to replace generic instances of 'Japanese people' or 'in Japan' with specific reference to the instance or person, I think he'd have had a better time in life.

And yes, it's difficult to encounter any amount of racism and not feel that the group of people that the racist person came from, do not in fact as a whole demonstrate racist behaviours in general. Obviously not at a higher cognitive level, but at an emotional reacting to a certain way of having been dealt with or treat.

But it's absolutely necessary to stop the generalisation, even if only for one's personal mental health. It serves no purpose other than wiring our animal brains up more strongly, to think of us vs them.

And try and notice it more often in Western media too. Any time there is a mention of someone's race, see whether it would look out of place with Black or Latino or Asian replaced with white.

It's often a completely irrelevant piece of information.

As the use of the word Japanese is often irrelevant in this post.

Yep lot's of terrible people in lots of places in the world, and the fact that they were Japanese in this instance is more related to the fact that they were born and brought up in Japan than some inherent generic flaws with an entire country of people.

And yes Japan has problems that aren't in other parts of the world, and vice versa. It still doesn't befit using `X people do Y` type generalisations.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#35
It is extremely difficult to integrate in a foreign society. Even a good language level will only carry you so far.

In my opinion, Western Europe, US and Canada are quite open, and let people, if not integrate, at least mind their own business.

Immigrants are usually also to blame, since often integration is not a priority. I've lived in several places around Europe, and usually foreigners stick together: it is easier to become friends with a German in France than it is in Germany, maybe because immigrants have similar mindsets, and experience similar problems.

What worries me is that it seems these relatively open societies are rapidly closing: nationalism is on the rise everywhere.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#37

The article is full of whining about imaginary BS like gender-bias and the writer seems to be doing everything is his/her power to look for problems that really don't exist like complaining about the word "foreigner" and trying to find racism or discrimination in everything. Japan may have it's problems but this is ridiculous.

I'm an American living in Japan (about 12 years now). Most of the stuff he's talking about is totally true. But, like some other commenters have been saying, I feel like: you figure that stuff out after a couple years and make peace with it (or not). There are many good and bad things about Japan. And it's different if you're a foreigner in Japan, yes. And it depends on where you're from and what color your skin is, etc.

My only question is why did it take him 10 years to "get fed up" with it? Most people who leave do so after a year or so. Most people who stay longer than a couple years tend to stay for a very long time.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#38

White text on black background - what a horrible choice of colours. Cannot read it for more than 3 minutes.

There are few solutions. I've settled on Mercury Reader[1] for now. Makes reading easy on the web.

1. https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/mercury-reader/okn...

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#39

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I'm glad people like him weren't allowed in our country. What country do you come from that denies entry to people based on how they translate Japanese signs? You're full of shit. Not surprised you hide behind a throwaway.

Are you for real? Go read the article, he knows Japanese. And there's your civility, acting all indignant and calling people full of shit without bothering to understand what's going on.

Maybe you are the throwaway of author's?

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#40
I heard the "if you don't like it, leave line" from people all the time in America. Even with the pettiest of political disagreements, people say it.

So then I went to Japan and haven't received or heard of anyone receiving similar vitriol aside from the OP.

A foreign coworker (same race and nationality as me) endlessly complains about racism, discrimination, and being stared at here. I've experienced none of it.

I'm not here to dismiss the author's claims, but most of the weeaboo to Japan hater crowd I've found is people who lived very cushy lives with close family bonds, and when they put that aside in a somewhat "cold" culture, they take offense to everything. As a cold, unsocial person myself, Japan is incredibly welcoming in that I feel like I can finally be left alone without being isolated. I hated having people randomly start conversations with me in America. I disliked the "not my job" attitude of Americans. I very strongly disliked how confrontational and easily angered Americans were (especially how people complained about restaurant services and the minorest of things, while here, it's practically unseen).

And then there's the people complaining about being a "foreigner forever." Honestly, how many asians in America get asked,"so, where are you from?" whenever they meet someone? I've seen it countless times. It's just a matter of being on the other end of it now.

And then he leads into "I can't believe they don't restrict speech and porn the way we do in my culture." In all honesty, fuck off. This is no better than someone being disgusted by western media showing bare female hair. The standards are subjective.

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