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How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

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Re: How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

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Slightly-related: has anyone interviewing with Airbnb used the author's public starting offer of $220k total compensation to negotiate their own starting offer? Genuinely curious. http://haseebq.com/farewell-app-academy-hello-airbnb-part-ii...

Alternatively, an existing Airbnb employee who negotiated a raise based on the same information.

Re: How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

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post #21

Earlier quoted context omitted.

FYI, he's actually quite technically talented. Let's assume less and RTFA more. http://haseebq.com/farewell-app-academy-hello-airbnb-part-ii... Excerpt: ... many people are drawing the conclusion that I primarily got a job at Airbnb by being really good at negotiating, or gaming the system, or something like that. If you have ever done a software engineering interview, you would know that this is completely absurd. T…

> If you have ever done a software engineering interview, you would know that this is completely absurd. There is no way to negotiate or charm someone into passing a software engineering interview. I'm sure the author is sufficiently qualified to pass such an interview (or 8), but I find this statement pretty bizarre. "Charm" might not be the right word, but under-qualified candidates pass software engineering interv…

That is so true !

I have come to believe that getting a job is either luck or accident.

Qualification is just the other half of the whole story. And by qualification I mean not just the scale/standard by which I would be measured during the interview but also formal educational endorsements.

Am I qualified to get a job ? Maybe. Am I lucky ? I'll find out. Same holds for any job seeker out there as well. Will I do anything meaningful at work or release more bugs than anybody else out there... Time will tell.

Re: How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

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post #27

It's this kind of personality that I look for in my organisations, mainly to isolate and slowly get rid of. The focus on "me" is so toxic. No amount of brilliance makes up for circles of damage to other, modest, hard working people.

Having a bunch of people who think the same, leads to group think. Having someone who like attention isn't necessary bad. Just like having someone who complains a lot isn't bad. (in fact if you look at team dynamics they'll end up being the most important type of person to have on a team to create a high performing team.) It's how the team and management react to a team member that creates toxic environments. If you have someone who points out valid issues and you choose to ignore them then of course they're complaining is going to become an issue. However if you fix the majority of major issues said person comes out with your team morale will go up because their product is better.

As they say there is no I in team, so acting like a single person can ruin a team feels rather stupid. It's a team that ruins a team.

Re: How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

#36
It might be important to keep in mind that there is a large difference between negotiating to buy a car and negotiating to work some place.

A lot of the stuff you read seems to be geared toward "buying a car" -- used top 10 tricks, outsmart somehow the dealer, maybe act like an asshole a bit, and you're leaving and never seeing them again.

I don't see it always working too well in job negotiations. Approaching it that way may backfire. So you "tricked" your future manager to give you a $50k more. In the end though, if they feel they didn't get a good deal because you oversold yourself, you won't have a good time eventually. The last thing you want to do is end up starting work and already having a target on your back, because the owner / manager feels a bit swindled by your "tactics".

Surely you can end up in a large organization, maybe slip through the cracks, but in the end, you better be sure you can deliver according to what you are paid.

Re: How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

#37

Slightly-related: has anyone interviewing with Airbnb used the author's public starting offer of $220k total compensation to negotiate their own starting offer? Genuinely curious. http://haseebq.com/farewell-app-academy-hello-airbnb-part-ii...

Really sad to know he didn't get a good offer in Airbnb and you both think it's a good offer. But this looks totally like a new grad offer.

I have my friends who just got offers in Airbnb who are getting paid 180k in salary and ~600K in stocks which is basically $330k/year.

My other friend who is senior engineer with 5 year experience is compensated around 500k/year.

I have similar experience and i recently did a job switch with around 11 competing offers and negotiated well more than the previous number. I negotiated with every offer except snapchat whom didn't move their needle but their offer was good not the best.

If you're really good, you can easily negotiate up to 400k/year real money(cash + stocks).

- Googler/Fb employee with 4 year work experience here.

Re: How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

#38

I highly recommend reading Never Split the Difference, by Chris Voss. The book offers a different take to negotiation, written by a former FBI negotiator. In his words, he could never split the difference in a hostage negotiation. When you enter the process understanding this, you do things differently.

Can you elaborate a bit please? Does this mean not meeting half way between your offer and theirs? And then what?

Good questions. His techniques rely on building a relationship, empathy, and many other techniques.

If you enter the process with a split the difference mentality, you invariably leave a lot of value on the table.

It's late where I am, I'd just go read the book if you want to know more.

Re: How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

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post #17

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Yeah, this is just sad. I know people personally that worked their asses off learning systems programming, algorithms, and advanced mathematics at top-tier four-year colleges with absolutely fantastic technical CVs that got offers that aren't even half of that. These are surely some of the smartest people in the world, too, but I suppose they don't play the "bluffing" game all too well (er, "negotation" -- call it wh…

He didn't get a 250k salary, that was total compensation, largely RSUs on a standard vesting schedule. He also donates 1/3rd of his pre-tax income to charity. He wasn't just a graduate of a hacker bootcamp, he was hired on by App Academy after he finished and was quickly promoted up to Director of Product. He spent a lot of time teaching people how to pass whiteboard interviews. He was probably better prepared for an…

Sounds like less of an indictment of him, and more of an indictment of the software interview process in SV and shark-feeding nature of the bubble.

Re: How Not to Bomb Your Offer Negotiation

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There are definitely some good points here. As someone who has done a decent amount of negotiating on both sides, I will say that while it's true that even in a startup your boss won't much care if you negotiate... they might care if you mercilessly try to squeeze out every. last. drop. as described here - even if you do it unfailingly politely. In a situation where there only a handful of employees and you're reporting to the founder, they may actually care about that last 10k you squeezed out at the deadline. Probably not enough to withdraw the offer, but perhaps enough to put a bit of a damper on the future relationship. I'm not saying it's not something that could be overcome. If you really are a 'rockstar', it would probably be quickly forgotten. But still, there is some value to leaving a small amount on the table. Especially since you can always negotiate a raise if your performance is indeed excellent. (Although admittedly your current salary does always anchor that somewhat, so I'm certainly not recommending giving up a lot initially.)
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