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Edit: Nvm. I am more confused than I thought.
I've always wondered about this one: My father's first-cousin-once-removed is what to me?
Edit: Ugh, this gets confusing. I was mistaken. I'd originally included the once-removed, but that appears to be incorrect. Or I'm still mistaken. :)
A first cousin once-removed signifies one person's grandparent is the other's great-grandparent.
Perhaps this cousin chart would help: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin#Relationship_charts
Just plot yourself and the cousin-in-question by where your shared nth-grandparent lies.