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I think you have a very narrow understanding of what "productive" means. You can produce or make progress towards anything that you value. Making other people money is just one avenue. If you had a year to live, you would definitely want to be productive. There's a lot that needs to get done to wrap up your one single life well, so that your time on earth wasn't lost. Just getting your will and testament done, talkin…
> If you had a year to live, you would definitely want to be productive. You'd be surprised. That's more of rat-race-disease artifact, where a person is measured by their "achievements" and "success" (as opposed to being intristically worth). Many people of many peoples would want to either relax, love and be with family, or enjoy themselves (and more likely a healthy combination of the two).
I logged my activities at 15-minute intervals for the whole year
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This sentence is exactly the problem. Everything is focused around work and productivity. So much, that you have to pat yourself on the back when find out your work throughput was less than what you thought it was. Why do we read about "I work less than I thought I did and that's ok" and not e.g. "I spent more time with my family than I thought I did, and that's great"?
same article says "I spent more time reading than I thought I did, and it's great"
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#293I would call this fake news, but then again, you did just create an activity tracker so.. I'm jealous.
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#294+ it is completely free, no ads, no nothing paid, not snooping your data
+ you don't have to unlock your phone - you can just type what you are doing inside the notification itself / choose from list of your usual activities
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#295My wife has made tool for doing this on your IPhone. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/take-control/id1499424011 + it is completely free, no ads, no nothing paid, not snooping your data + you don't have to unlock your phone - you can just type what you are doing inside the notification itself / choose from list of your usual activities
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#296Earlier quoted context omitted.
When women weren't in the workforce it was a much easier time to raise children. Now women have to work so that they can have a lower middle class life. Daycare has risen because of this - not because of grandparents not watching their grandchildren.
It is useful to look at history. Women have always worked (other than a particular subset of rich women and then, in the US and western Europe in the 1900s, a slightly broader subset of well-off women). It's just that much of that work was done in or near the home, and for most of human history men worked in or near the home as well. For almost all of human history, the effort made to produce money or food was co-loc…
Spending time with children isn't playing video games with your son. It's hunting, playing sports, teaching, cooking, fighting, fixing things, fishing, etc. Raising a child isn't all about having fun all day with toys.
> Time surveys indicate that even working parents now spend at least twice as much time with their children now as in 1965 [1].
Which is obviously expected. For middle class people in the baby boomer era with large economic benefits, they spent more time with kids. The survey excluded those that wouldn't be able to (e.g. poor people in poor countries.) Selection bias doesn't really tell us anything at all.
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#297My wife has made tool for doing this on your IPhone. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/take-control/id1499424011 + it is completely free, no ads, no nothing paid, not snooping your data + you don't have to unlock your phone - you can just type what you are doing inside the notification itself / choose from list of your usual activities
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#298Re: I logged my activities at 15-minute intervals for the whole year
#299My wife has made tool for doing this on your IPhone. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/take-control/id1499424011 + it is completely free, no ads, no nothing paid, not snooping your data + you don't have to unlock your phone - you can just type what you are doing inside the notification itself / choose from list of your usual activities
That smiley after "currently" makes me really uneasy...
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#300I am always baffled how sad this extreme focus into productivity makes me. If you discovered you were going to die in a year, would you continue to spend all your time being "productive"? I figure almost everyone would shift all their focus on doing things that "really matter". Sadly I believe the world managed to make us feel guilty when we're not doing something that makes someone else rich (majority of jobs). I'm…