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I can’t tell which of the ideas you think are crazy. - 18 months in low risk savings (not invested) - seems like overkill. - I personally think any money spent on a wedding is overkill - we went to the courthouse and saved a ton of money by having a smallish reception (in fairness we were in our mid 30s and on our second marriage) - 401K - I have no opinion either way. I haven’t thought about the pros and cons. I don…
==in fairness we were in our mid 30s and on our second marriage== How much did you spend on the first marriage?
I wish I could /s this, but I have seen too many folks take a big financial hit during and after a divorce.