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To start, I disagree. If it takes a person to turn away from a tool just because some random human tool said something online, maybe they are not ready, on what level - emotional, spiritual, mental, moral - I'll leave them to decide. I'm not saying "don't dabble in Emacs", dable all you want. Just use the damn tool - it's not that hard. To use the tool you just need to use the fucking tool with the intent to fucking…
Evangelism takes at least two forms: - You're a sinner, a wrong-doer, and you must repent. - This world you have not yet experienced is wonderful. Let me tell you about it. Many, probably most, respond better to the second form.
What I see quite often is when people profess years of using the tool and finding it unsatisfactory, only to reveal (if ever) that they've engaged with just its surface layer. It's like someone saying they found a piano limiting after years of only using it as a percussion instrument. My point is about embracing Emacs as a Lisp environment from day one - not because everyone must use it this way, but because that's what it actually is. When you treat it as 'just an editor' you're working against its design rather than with it. Those who embrace its programmable nature early often discover possibilities they didn't know they were looking for. Yes, this may mean a slightly steeper upfront commitment, but it also means actually using the tool rather than having square-peg-round-hole mismatched expectations.
It's not about choosing nicer or harsher messaging, it's about the truth, and it comes from the heart - I personally, of course, regret years wasted in vain instead of finding Emacs sooner; it works great for me. I understand it may not work that well for everybody, and I'd rather they realize that sooner, instead of wasting years of their lives. I also spent a long time trying to rationalize Emacs in my own head, because I kept approaching it from the wrong angle, but I am happy I didn't quit. Some people may not have that kind of patience.