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The cynical part of thinks that that might be a feature, not a bug.
It is a feature. FAANG want dedicated engineers who don't have the distraction of family and/or sick relatives. They don't want people who need to finish _promptly_ each day to put their kids to bed. They want their pound of flesh in exchange for a high salary and ability to add "Worked at FAANG" on their CV. If you have the time and dedication to grind leetcode for months the you've passed their requirement.
This is hilariously out of touch.
Most of the FAANG people I know have kids.
Nearly all of their managers have families.
The one person I know who has two special needs kids specifically sought out a FAANG job for the stability, compensation, and work life balance it afforded.