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I think the biggest pull back / time sink with Tailwind isn't the CSS, it's the (lack of) JavaScript. With Bootstrap you have a bunch of common things handled for you out of the box (dropdowns, modals, tooltips and like 100 other things you can easily find on Google since the community is massive). You can just drop these widgets into your template and get going. Often with just 1 or 2 lines code if you're using Yarn…
For a react app all what that javascript from bootstrap does is get in the way
But don't you have the choice to not use Bootstrap's JS then, and instead use either premade React components that are vanilla JS or use React Bootstrap components if you wanted to?
I'll admit I haven't written any React code but if I Google for React Bootstrap components I find a ton of resources, even 1 to 1 ports like https://react-bootstrap.github.io/components/alerts/. I also see tons upon tons of vanilla JS React components, all ready to go where you can drop in CSS class names and you're done.
Someone not using React with Tailwind is left with basically having to implement everything on their own, or try to stitch together a bunch of libs that others have written with their own individual opinions and lack of standards. It's a much different world. It's a world where you can spend 10 hours trying to get a responsive drop down working instead of 10 seconds with Bootstrap.