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I think I see what you’re getting at? My mental model is client and server, but you’re implying a more complex topology where no one service is uniquely a server or a client. You’d like to insert a new version at an arbitrary position in the graph without worrying about dependencies or the operational complexity of doing a phased deployment. The result is that you try to maintain a principled, constructive ambiguity…
Yes thats a big part, but even bigger is just the alignment of teams. Imagine team A building feature XYZ Team B is building TUV one of those features in each team deals with messages, the others are unrelated. At some point in time, both teams have to deploy. If you have to sync them up just to get the protocol to work, thats an extra complexity in the already complex work of the teams. If you can ignore this, great…
I think the key source of my confusion was Team A not being able to continue supporting schema S once the new version is released. That certainly makes the problem harder.