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We are all animals at night

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Re: We are all animals at night

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Yeah, that's something a rational person should do. Self destruction hardly ever is rational however, and it's near impossible to see all of the collateral damage you make when destroying yourself.

Irrationality (own or others') can trap people in situations where self-destruction is the most rational choice. Furthermore, we have a bit of a scoping issue on our hands: we default to assuming that self-preservation is rational. Self-preservation may be rational behavior for animals. But humans are qualitatively different from animals in at least the following aspects: - We have language, which lets us continue ou…

RE @vacuity, HN limiting depth of discussions and all (oh, the delightful irony!).

>Is affecting others for selfish reasons a rational choice there?

Selfish reasons or no, in most cases it's not practically possible to do anything that does not affect others. Whether you have affected them positively or negatively, and whether you are to be held responsible, is for others to decide - mostly arbitrarily, that is to say in accordance with a whole host of suprarational factors.

>Suicide is both final and most directly individual, which is why I distinguish it.

I didn't really notice you making a distinction. You're free to uphold one, of course - wherever you consider appropriate.

>"Many" and "an alternative of just...waiting to die" suggest a far greater scale of "rational irrationality" than I think actually occurs. How often are people faced with situations where their only realistic alternative boils down to "waiting to die"?

Who said "only"? It's just the default option.

>Suicide fits your criterion, but not alcoholism

Use of intoxicants cause consciousness to change, then, sure enough, temporarily stop existing. It can also cause people to do reckless shit and risk their lives more. The human brain is a brilliant inhibition machine.

Addiction may be understood as a process that occurs within a person's self, or outside of it, depending on where the locus of control is defined. This is beside the point, though. It is rare that one pursues addiction with the express purpose of obliterating the self, though it's not unheard of.

You seem to be reading in my comment a distinction between suicide and other self-destructive behaviors; a distinction which I don't remember putting there.

>From your perspective, you mean. People have opinions, thank you very much

People have perspectives, and everyone's is valid (when presented in good faith).

People also have opinions. However, unlike the perspectives, some opinions are incorrect and worth disproving.

What's worse, people also tend to mix up their perspectives with their opinions, and, most perniciously of all, with their identities. I don't know what to do about that, sorry.

>Most rational? Really?

According to my opinion and perspective, whose else. Why would you imply that I mean otherwise?

>I'm not sure about that, but perhaps.

It all depends on the situation, of course. After all, you never can truly be certain what the others see.

>but that doesn't mean we can't talk about how self-destructive behaviors can be harmful.

Sure, if it helps anyone.

>I don't think they would be taking the most rational course of action through suicide. In fact, I highly doubt more can't be done with the their effort than without.

Where did I say that they find life not worth living, so they kill themselves? If only.

I'm saying that they find life not worth living, because the things that are supposed to intrinsically attract them to living, are made unattainable; so they end up living lives that are ultimately harmful to others, because someone promised them that some way of life or other is what will give their lives meaning.

By the time they have the power to change anything, the world would better off without them - but good luck getting them to budge. It's funny, give em a decade or two and Gen Z are gonna be absolutely MASSIVE boomers, the likes of which the world has never seen before.

>Is that really what you got from my comment

Not really. I got some help with staying awake though, which was nice. Cheers

Re: We are all animals at night

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> sex workers can’t be both marginalized and calling the shots Disagree. Calling the shots in the business, not in society. Just like a drug kingpin might be calling the shots in their organization.

Comparing a drug kingpin to a prostitute is kind of ridiculous but if that makes sense in your mind then I doubt we would see eye to eye on pretty much anything.

It was a counter-example in the analytic/math sense, I was in no way suggesting that a sex worker is equivalent to a drug kingpin. Merely an example as to why your assertion that [calling the shots is incompatible with overall societal marginalization] is wrong.

Happy to not continue though, I think you struggle with good faith discussion and/or reading comprehension (:

Re: We are all animals at night

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This is exemplary writing. The contrast between gig work and corporate work.

The line about sitting under florescent light in a cubicle rung true.

In day time, things are so busy people are invading each others space bubbles, traffic raises the emotions.

At night time, there seems more abundance, things are calmer, people have their space. People are kinder when they don’t have to fight for the same resources.

Re: We are all animals at night

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This made me laugh out loud, at the sheer political naivete. Office workers earn more because they do jobs more similar to the jobs of those who allocate money.

This is a factor, but to say it is the factor is nonsense. Supply vs demand dynamics very much do exist. I get paid a lot, I also create measurably more than my salary in value.

Isn’t that supply and demand? You’re in demand because you create more value than you capture. Your employer loves that about you. If they could find someone cheaper who produced even more value, they’d replace you.

Re: We are all animals at night

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> "I once watched a fast-food server placate a violent customer with nothing more than her voice and a stale honey cruller at her disposal." This is given as an example of a "skill" that should be considered admirable. It should be considered unnecessary. It should be considered unnecessary. A fast food worker placating a violent customer with a stale honey cruller is an unwelcome intrusion into a stable society, not…

> What exactly is your solution for "bad behavior" in society then?

There are many possible solutions for "bad behavior in public"; on the "carrot" side there's better education, better nutrition, more peaceful neighborhoods, and better care for mental health and addiction; on the "stick" side there's prison, involuntary confinement to mental wards, corporal punishment, and shaming. In many other places in the world people who can't look after themselves are stopped by external forces who care to apply behavioral standards to public conduct.

"Bad behavior" will never be eliminated from any society, but it is not true that there is no possible solution that allows us to live in a society where late-night fast food workers aren't regularly threatened by violent people.

Regarding projecting my own bias on the piece, I am indeed biased against prostitutes, pimps, johns, people who are violent towards fast food workers, organized crime, unorganized crime, and anyone else who regularly engages in antisocial behavior for self-gratification. I don't mind and even enjoy writing that explores these underworlds and details the motivations of people who live in them, but this piece was clearly written by someone who has a strong distaste for a "normal", healthy society, and believes that the lowest parts of society are as or more valuable than the rest of it.

Re: We are all animals at night

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I lived in the shadows in Canada a time. You're not allowed to leave - the US border blocks, among others. So "going to Omaha, Nebraska" is unrealistic. Experiences of a foreign country where perhaps there's somewhere to go to find low end work, and be paid enough to live somewhere ... that's a dream. One not available in far too much of the world - yes including Canada these days. And the cost of living in most of C…

I was writing with a US-centric mindset, so I agree that neither Omaha or Alaska is that realistic if you're a Canadian citizen. I'm intrigued by your assertion that there is not any low-end work available in Canada, though; my understanding is that Canada is taking on millions and millions of low-end immigrants who live together in tenement-style housing and work low-paying jobs to support each other. I thought that this meant that there was abundant low-end labor. If this is the case, then Canadians who feel forced into prostitution should just go find immigrants and ask them what they're doing for work and then do that, but if there's not actually any work available that may not be good advice.

However, the author of the article was getting a Bachelor's degree. I don't think she had fully explored every possible avenue for her life to take before she took a job as a prostitute.

Re: We are all animals at night

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post #264

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This is a factor, but to say it is the factor is nonsense. Supply vs demand dynamics very much do exist. I get paid a lot, I also create measurably more than my salary in value.

Isn’t that supply and demand? You’re in demand because you create more value than you capture. Your employer loves that about you. If they could find someone cheaper who produced even more value, they’d replace you.

Yes that is exactly my point

Re: We are all animals at night

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I am a very picky reader, and I rarely say this, but this is an exceptionally well written piece. The pacing, the wording, the sense of atmosphere, and what to say when are just incredibly well done. This is what writers should aspire to. Also, great hook (we are all animals at night).

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Re: We are all animals at night

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> What do you need if you’re out seeking services at night? Food, sex, shelter. This really encapsulates what all humans want and need. Food, sex & love, shelter & clothing. With only those three things you can live a happy life. Everything else is really to satisfy a desire for novelty and experience.

I hear this often and the idea that some people believe it strikes me as profoundly sad. I don't know if it's even as applicable as people who say this think it is. I don't know anyone who has ate and loved/fucked their way out of the dread of doing nothing and knowing nothing. They're usually just left wondering "is this all there really is?" I know plenty of people that primarily live off of gruel with little to no…

Maybe instead of sex the real need is connection, sex is one way to get it.

Re: We are all animals at night

#270

> What do you need if you’re out seeking services at night? Food, sex, shelter. This really encapsulates what all humans want and need. Food, sex & love, shelter & clothing. With only those three things you can live a happy life. Everything else is really to satisfy a desire for novelty and experience.

I hear this often and the idea that some people believe it strikes me as profoundly sad. I don't know if it's even as applicable as people who say this think it is. I don't know anyone who has ate and loved/fucked their way out of the dread of doing nothing and knowing nothing. They're usually just left wondering "is this all there really is?" I know plenty of people that primarily live off of gruel with little to no…

> I don't know anyone who has ate and loved/fucked their way out of the dread of doing nothing and knowing nothing

I think you're taking my comment far too literally but you've never known anyone that's been happier because they've gotten in a good relationship, or pulled themselves out of poverty?

I make things for a living and consider that to be a precious and valuable pursuit, but I'm only afforded that by having some degree of food, shelter, clothing, relationships.

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