Are there any "math for people who just want to use it" tracks in math pedagogy? I don't care a bit about proving any of it's true, or even reading others proofs of same. "Recognize which tool to apply, then apply tool", all focused on real-world use (so, yes, it wouldn't be "real" mathematics). That's the math education I'd like—try as I might, I just can't make myself care even a little about math for math's sake.…
My strong opinion as someone who majored in math is that, at least within the US, the standard calculus requirement should be replaced with statistics. So much more useful and so much more important as an adult. The analytical type of thinking that proof-writing is certainly useful, but you can make much the same argument of many other curricula, and besides, it's not like most intro calc courses even do any proofs.…
The only reason I took calculus is because it was the next math course after pre-calc and I still had a year left in high school. I didn’t even realize that there was a type of math that could be used to exactly calculate quantities related to continuously changing processes, but I was absolutely fascinated by how many real world problems calculus could solve - I realized that the problems given in algebra were contrived out of necessity to resolve in a neat manner. Now I had access to an entirely new vocabulary that allowed me to describe the world as it is, not as it needed to be to neatly fit in a 10th grade word problem.
Until that point I was interested in psychology (and had a vague notion that I’d drop out of school to make a career in music somehow), but I immediately dropped everything to take as many math and physics courses as I could. 14 years later and I work in a very math heavy engineering oriented field.
I know my story is probably atypical, and I have no clue what I’d be doing right now if I hadn’t taken calculus, but it’s one of those things that I look at in hindsight and think that I was that close to giving up on STEM, but for being forced to take Calculus. Instead, I earned my Ph.D. in applied math, and there’s not a day where I don’t use calculus of some kind.