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It could literally be a cron job that dumps your DB to a desktop computer once a week. Not exactly CIA-level stuff.
More realistically they would have done backups inside DO and would still be locked out. Not many people actually do complete offsite backups to a completely different hosting provider, getting locked out of your account is usually just not a consideration. It’s unrealistic to expect this of a tiny startup.
Then it's unrealistic to trust them with your business.