Every person I know who's left California did it because of housing costs (except for one, who did it to get away from "the damn liberal government that wants to take my guns"). We have a major housing cost crisis in this state, as well as a big NIMBY problem. There have been good solutions run up through the state house, that either fail to pass or get so watered down they are no longer effective, in large part beca…
We miss the city and our friends, but couldn't see ourselves there long term.
New York City is expensive, but there are areas of relative affordability that feel much more accessible, comfortable, and safer than the Bay Area.