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Men View Their Ex-Partners More Favorably Than Women Do: Study

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I think you might have misunderstood? Academic physics publications do not have perfect reproduction rates. Especially theoretical physics. The criteria for a valid theory doesn’t prevent human mistakes. Everything you said applies to social sciences too. Per the scientific method any valid theory must be reproducible and predictive. It’s an unfortunate fact of life that the academic research and publication process…

Perhaps you can help shed some light on my apparent misunderstanding? See this other comment: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=21365183

I’ll give it a try. I can’t speak to the downvotes, but from my perspective you started talking about physics itself being repeatable. That is a separate topic from whether academic publications are repeatable. The thread’s context was the top comment suggesting the research linked at the very top is questionable because of it’s conclusion and it’s category (social science). My argument is that neither the conclusion nor the category can be used to assume the linked article is less than scientific, and that no sciences are designed to tell us why things are the way they are. When you add that physics itself is 100% repeatable, while true, it isn’t relevant to the topic nor does it help reflect on the article’s validity.

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This is an unsurprising position to hold when you don’t know (or refuse to acknowledge) the difference between gender and sex. Do you think people who transition to a different gender think there’s no difference between the two?

I'm fully aware of the supposed distiction. Feel free to read my statement as "biologically implied gender".

If you meant to say "assigned gender" you should just say that because otherwise it comes across differently.

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This is an unsurprising position to hold when you don’t know (or refuse to acknowledge) the difference between gender and sex. Do you think people who transition to a different gender think there’s no difference between the two?

Gender has until recently been a synonym for sex. If you are referring to gender identity, then use that term.

Gender was used synonymously with sex before the differences between the things known as ascribed gender, gender identity, and sex were identified and became things that needed distinct labels.

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Internet is inverted therapy, beware the negativity please!

When we have a internalized, skeptical view on something, we have a tendency to seek confirmation of it and ignore clues that can open our minds.

There are other, more accepted perspectives we can use to understand relationships. I hope this can be helpful to people!

Attachment Theory: https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/1d36/ac75d7081fcd86d467f6d2..., http://www.psychology.sunysb.edu/attachment/online/inge_orig...

Schema Therapy: https://www.guilford.com/excerpts/young.pdf

Also I recently found some nice study notes relationships:

http://fiupsychology.com/ch.6.htm, http://fiupsychology.com/ch.7.htm, http://fiupsychology.com/ch.8.htm

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgWnadSi91s

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My hot take: Women give and men take in relationships. See life expectancy of married vs unmarried men and the same for women. When a breakup happens women loses more as she committed more.

Since when life expectancy is measure of a good and meaningful life? It is more a measure of risk-avoidance.

Cardiac health is correlated with mental health/happiness
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