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Devil's advocate: do you think children who lack families that provide such advantages must necessarily "suffer" as a consequence of that lack? And conversely, why did you wait to object until this, in particular, became a consideration instead of before (when ethnicity and other factors were already considerations)?
> Devil's advocate: do you think children who lack families that provide such advantages must necessarily "suffer" as a consequence of that lack? As for me, of course not. I don't want other kids to suffer. And I'm sure it's the same for everyone else. But why should I or my children who did the right things (study, sacrifice, etc) suffer because some faceless bureaucrats gets to decide who get an advantage via a 'se…
> why should I or my children who did the right things (study, sacrifice, etc) suffer
Because plenty of other families and children do the same right things (study, sacrifice, etc), AND suffer other adversity. You're not special.