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Just out of curiosity- Do you recall the approximate weight of flywheels in referenced "big powerful manuals"? IIRC the Subaru flywheels for the Impreza weigh in at about 20 lbs - and this is likely similar or identical to what is used in the Foresters.
No idea, but one of the cars that I learned to drive stick in was a friend's 2003 Mustang Cobra. All cast iron engine and something like 400WHP. I don't know that the weight of the flywheel was everything, the crankshaft weighs a lot and I think even the moving mass of the pistons and rods translates into rotational inertia. Finally having 8 cylinders versus 4 means that your engine response time is theoretically twi…
With that said, check out where the engagement of your clutch is. I've had people complain about grabby clutches(stalling) only to find out the engagement point is almost at the top of the throw (Former Subaru tech)