Decades ago, an old friend told me "I became a coffee expert, I learned everything there is to learn about beans, the ways to prepare them, the chemistry that goes into it, and now I can only enjoy a cup of coffee prepared by the most expensive machines from the most expensive beans. The shit part is that I enjoy it just as much as I enjoyed my shitty supermarket coffee back when I didn't know anything about coffee."…
I strive to be at the informed part of the spectrum.
Wine example:
- Novice: "I'd like any red wine" -> waiter brings you something you don't like
- Informed: "I'd like a red wine that is dry, not st" -> waiter brings you something you are quite likely to like
- Asshole: "Do you have an Argentinian malbec from 1998-2000, from the so and so valley?" -> you spend a lot of money and like the wine, or you are unhappy because they don't meet your asshole preferences
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