>* Change the default port from 22 to something in the 40k+ range, which will keep you from being scanned, and
I'm replying to these suggestions all over this item because I think it's important, so I apologize if you've since seen this comment elsewhere, but:
This introduces new security risks. Non-privileged users can bind on ports in the 40k+ range and cannot bind on 22. If you restart sshd for a software upgrade or some other reason, or the iptables rules you're using to remap the ports get flushed, the malicious non-privileged user can now bind to the port people were communicating with your sshd on, and if they ignore the host key mismatch, everything they send can be captured by the malicious user.
Older openssh clients have default configurations that can result in the leak of the whole private key, if you use password auth or 2FA they can outright steal those, perhaps their fake sshd will do more than just steal credentials and will actually mimic a shell and let them gain more understanding of how the system ticks, etc.
Is this level of attack something most people are going to run into? No. But neither is an attack more sophisticated than brute force password attempts. It's definitely information people should be keeping in mind when making these sorts of decisions, too.