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"a. There's no need to 'read the documentation' before every update a quick glance at the news feed will do." That is part of the documentation. Users shouldn't have to subscribe to a news feeds in order to correctly update their systems. Do you subscribe to Microsoft's or Apple's update news feed? If you do, you're unlike 99.999% of users. "b. macOS doesn't track and update every package on your system." Mint does.…
But the perception that "shit happens way more on Arch or Gentoo" is your subjective opinion, because that's how it happened to you, others see it differently, I still remember the very first Ubuntu I've tried (6.10) being garbage on my hw compared to Mandrake, but that didn't seem to be the case for a lot of people evidently since it became so popular.
Similarly, the config file merging process on Arch is basically 100% manual (I know pacdiff makes it a little easier, but still).