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This is an issue with a lot of online creator communities and people using them for marketing too. Way too many would be authors, artists, game developers, YouTubers, musicians, etc end up marketing their work in communities for their choice of art/project rather than in places their actual audience visits. Unfortunately as you point out, while that can work to a limited degree, it will usually cap off pretty quickly…
is there like a right way to do it?
You really want to be known as an 'authority' in your area of choice and have your product in front of as many people in its target audience as possible, so people trust you know what you're doing and take you seriously.