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Why is syncing across devices not opt-in? Why doesn't Kindle tell you which data it sends and when?
Sync is opt-in. And, good question. It would be nice, though I'm sure they've buried it in their multi-page privacy doc somewhere. EDIT: No, it's not opt-in. Reading failure on my part.
https://www.epubor.com/whispersync-for-kindle.html
"And "Whispersync for Books" is enabled on Kindle Fire, Kindle devices and apps by default."
https://smallbusiness.chron.com/amazon-whispernet-work-58992...
"Whispersync is on by default in all new Kindles, but you can turn off the option on individual devices if you have multiple readers attached to your account."
https://ebookfriendly.com/how-to-disable-data-collection-kin...
"How to disable data collection on your Kindle or Fire device"