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Certainly you didn't go through the entire pro con list of Node over other languages and go "it must be developer laziness!" Easy to reason about, great performance for most cases, simple to debug and write code for, a plethora of libraries, easy to ship, no need to have different teams for backend/frontend, and minimal tooling needed.
The only really unique thing JS is bringing to the table is that it also has a privileged position in the front end. Your list of benefits it provides boils down to stuff multiple large languages all have, and the one thing that means you can learn just JS. GP comment was presented somewhat snarkily, but I'm not sure they're all that wrong.
You don't think JS is obviously unique for its ubiquitous Promise, async/await, + async-everything abstraction. You tend to only get that in other languages (Rust, Python, Ruby) by limiting yourself to a fraction of the ecosystem.
Btw, what's lazy is making convenient uncharitable assumptions about others than just... asking.
This forum is full of people who could tell you why they still use JS after they analyze pros/cons of other languages.