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Lifting is actually very efficient and having more muscle can help for lots of everyday tasks. I think you are just hanging out with the wrong people if all (or even most) of the people you know who lift are doing it for "girls"
> having more muscle can help for lots of everyday tasks When I've discussed the motivation with weight-lifting friends, they bring up that very point. Then I ask them to give an example of something they did with their strength today or in the last month, that I couldn't have done just as easily (I'm average strength). After long thought they come up contrived examples like, I had to lift my motorbike to change a ti…
Guess what? Could lift it up, picked the dropped item, found a couple more that had been lost months ago, and put it back into place.
Additionally, the feeling of accomplishment is awesome, being able to do things you could never do before is just incredible.