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I am not saying your experience must be the same. According to the three japanese people in my group here and some other feedback from people living there before, same as you I guess, and they speak japanese quite ok, our conclusion is that being one more is not as easy as in other countries. I say this from the strictest respect to japanese. I like them, I like their culture. If you live there you must know perfectl…
> If you live there you must know perfectly that just bc they act politely does not mean they are thinking you do not bother them. Since this makes a strong assumption on how people "think", I really don't know how to respond to this. > If you live there you must know perfectly No I don't.
Basically, what people euphemism away here is "you get to be slightly discriminated against". In the USA situation, we would say "they are racist against you while keeping it politically correct wherever provable". It has measurable impact.