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Have you tried hanging out in the node.js IRC channel? Help is just a step away! The node mailing lists are also pretty helpful. You can also feel free to email me (email in profile) - I have been working on node for more than a year now on a decent sized project.
I tried the IRC channel about a year ago, but at that time i was so new to Node that i felt a little out of place. It seems you had to be at least intermediate level with node to really start chatting to people. You have to remember that i'm new to programming itself as well as Node. That said, i should repay the place a visit. I was always worried about IRC etiquette. What i mean to say is - is it considered poor et…
The node mailing list is a good place for asking questions too. Often, the more focussed your question is, the better it is. So, instead of asking something vague - ask about specific areas you are facing problems with. Also, when asking a question, explaining what you tried to do to solve the problem yourselves helps people better understand your problem and offer constructive help.