Earlier quoted context omitted.
I was an ivy league admissions officer for a few years after college. I promise you your application was viewed as "well, here's another really smart asian kid who's otherwise unremarkable from the other 1000 we'll see". Meanwhile, hers was treated like precious gold.
So what's the solution to the problem of not enough seats for x ethnicity when filtering out academic performance metrics?
If admissions can never see that information they are much less likely to be able to discriminate against it.
Of course, if someone doesn't like the result, and not enough black/asian/jewish/white/whatever kids get in, then someone sues.
But to me, this is the only way of making it on the merits. As soon as you introduce that information into the process, bias takes over.